Interviews
How would you describe your work? My secret power is that I’m able to find teachable moments with my clients, especially around boundaries and communication. I’m basically a femme queer tattooed-Barbie that blends into the mainstream when she wants to, in order to make money or to educate. I’ve been so informed by my… Read More
Articles
Just because she’s wet doesn’t mean she’s horny
Hey there, do you have a penis? Can you think of an occasion when your penis got hard and yet you weren’t aroused? Have you ever experienced “morning wood”? Or random erections due to nonsexual physical stimulation? You are not alone. Can you recall a situation where someone mistook your visible hardness as arousal? Was… Read More
Interviews, Updates
Being A Sex Worker Makes Me A Better Mum – Barcroft Video
I open up a lot in this intimate profile of my family and work life. Watch here on Youtube.com Read More
Articles, Interviews
Exotic Dancing in The Digital Age – Medium
How technology is changing how strippers view themselves, interact with society and do business “I could be a stripper.” That was what Juniper thought to herself during an eight-hour drive to visit some out of town friends. She had just broken up with her boyfriend and felt like her life was going nowhere. “I had… Read More
Blog, Interviews
Let’s Talk About Sexual Healing – Interview with Renee Sills
Have you ever cried after sex or during yoga class? How do we talk about the trauma that exists in our bodies? Renee Sills’ “Let’s Talk About Sexual Healing” is part of an ongoing series and you can follow her work here. What can you tell us about Let’s Talk About Sexual Healing? Let’s Talk… Read More
Articles
Actually, Talking About Porn With Your Kids Is Easy & Crucial
The first time I saw porn was in my parent’s bathroom. My dad kept Playboy and Hustler in a neat stack next to the toilet, secured by an ashtray that never moved. The ashtray to me symbolized a padlock — it was understood that we were not to touch the ashtray, not to lift it… Read More
Articles
So You Have an STI. What Should You Do Next?
Approximately 20 million Americans acquire a new STI every year. If you’re one of them, here are 8 things you need to know It’s often hard for people to know how to talk about sexually transmitted infections(STIs). The topic can prompt a lot of awkward or potentially stressful conversations. But if you’re a grown man… Read More
Interviews, Updates
‘Louis C.K. could have hired a sex worker’ is a lazy, dangerous argument – Daily Dot
Being paid for labor does not establish consent In a New York Times report last week, multiple women said that Louis C.K. had pulled out his penis and masturbated in front of them. Weeks before, hundreds women came forward against director James Toback, saying he had solicited them in public places with offers to develop their careers,… Read More
Articles
The 6-Week Green Light On Sex After Having A Baby Is A Bunch Of B.S.
How long until you can have sex again after childbirth? That is perhaps one of the most loaded questions that new parents face. Low libido is common in new parents, especially new mothers and especially in new working mothers, though you hear little about it. I co-parent a 5-year-old and work 40 hours a… Read More
Articles
I’m a Sex Worker Asking the 9th Circuit Court to Decriminalize Prostitution
For the first time in thirteen years, the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals is revisiting the legality of full service sex work. The case is ESPLERP vs Gascón, in which three sex workers, one client, and the Erotic Service Providers Legal, Educational and Research Project are challenging the state ban on prostitution. I urge… Read More
