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My Fiance Feels Neglected Because We Don’t Have Sex as Often as He’d Like – What Now?

Posted on March 18, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: In the last year, I’ve gotten a new job and it’s very physically and emotionally demanding, and my fiance of three years complains if we go longer than four or five days without sex. I love him and still find him very attractive but I feel like I’m constantly putting on a show at work,… Read More
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My libido is dead and my partner still wants to f*ck – what now?

Posted on March 2, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
This is a very common question! When a relationship is fresh, people tend to have higher levels of excitement, and so it’s easier to cue up pleasure when you’re more receptive to it. As those excitement levels wane and the monotony of life or routine re-emerges, it is normal and common for libido to dampen.… Read More
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I Only F*ck Feminists – Medium

Posted on July 16, 2017 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
I am a woman who unabashedly loves men. I love them short, I love them tall, and I love them bearded, shaved, bald, trim, or chunky. I love the way they smell; I love the scratch of a stubbled jaw against my cheek. How do I adore men? I could count the ways. However, I… Read More
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What Stripping Has Taught Me About Dating Men

Posted on January 10, 2016 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Originally published 1/9/2026 on Thrillist.com   I’ve been a stripper for seven years. I’ve been married, I’ve been single, and I’m currently polyamorous. For most humans, having a conversation with a stranger is a daunting endeavor. That’s why blind dates, Tinder dates — any dates, really — are stressful: we’re looking to gather information about… Read More

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