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Since the COVID 19 crisis started, my sex drive has been so low

Posted on May 19, 2020 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  Since the COVID 19 crisis started, my sex drive has been so low. I want the connection but I don’t have the libido I did.  How can my partner and I find intimacy and sexual connection when I just don’t want to have sex like I used to? A:  Stress is one of the biggest… Read More
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I don’t know if I’m normal or not; I love to orgasm, but only when I masturbate alone.

Posted on January 15, 2020 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  I don’t know if I’m normal or not; I love to orgasm, but only when I masturbate alone. It makes me uncomfortable to orgasm with my boyfriend. Like, totally out of control for my body and it makes me feel unsafe and uncomfortable even though I feel 100% comfortable with him. Is that normal?… Read More
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My Boyfriend Wants To Try Rape Fantasty Play—I’m A Sexual Assault Survivor

Posted on April 17, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  My boyfriend as recently expressed an interest in fantasy play. At first, I was into it. We had a lot of fun making up scenarios and playing them out. I will totally admit it spiced things up between us in a very good way. However, recently he has suggested more violent type fantasies including… Read More
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My Boyfriend’s Best Friend Just Started Dating A Woman Who Openly Calls Herself A Swinger And It Makes Me Nervous

Posted on March 6, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  My boyfriend’s best friend just started dating a woman who openly calls herself a swinger. He seems very happy, in fact, happier than I’ve ever seen him in a relationship. He’s mentioned some things that make me believe they are exploring the “swinger” lifestyle together. It makes me very uncomfortable. I think it’s a… Read More
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BroAum Podcast – Open Relationships, Effective Communication, Frequent Masturbation

Posted on February 3, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
I joined the fellas at BroAum podcast to talk about these things, check them out if you’re a guy trying to be a better guy.   “Everyone likes sex, everyone likes attention, everyone has to share, no one likes to feel bad. These are facts of life we all have to deal with. In this… Read More
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My Fiancé Wants Me To Try Being A “Cam Girl.” I’m Not So Sure

Posted on January 28, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  My fiance and I have used porn as a way of enhancing our sex life for several months and I enjoy doing that with him. I know some won’t agree, but it’s felt very intimate and I know our sex life feels hotter with some cinematic inspiration at times. Recently we were having a… Read More
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Having A Baby Is The Perfect Time To Be Honest With Your Partner About What You Like In Bed

Posted on October 25, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
There was a time in my life when I was too afraid to ask for what I wanted while I was having sex. I was an award-worthy performance actress capable of moans, groans, grunts, and even staccato breathing. I’d learned how to pull off a convincing act by what I’d seen on the tv; women… Read More
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How to Prevent Sex-related Injuries

Posted on October 1, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: My husband and I have been having some really great sex recently. It’s been more frequent and more intense. I guess you might say more vigorous. I’m really enjoying the new momentum in our sex life but I’m finding myself with a variety of minor injuries and issues that are putting a cramp in… Read More
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My Partner Wants Me To Be More Vocal In Bed. As a Woman Who Usually Talks A Lot I’m Surprised this Makes me Uncomfortable

Posted on September 17, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:I realize this sounds silly, but my new boyfriend wants me to be more vocal in bed. He’s asked me several times to talk dirty to him. I feel so awkward. It makes me uncomfortable and distracted. A: It doesn’t sound silly at all – even experienced sex workers sometimes feel awkward when vocalizing sexy-speak that’s… Read More
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Guilt, Religion And Sex Before Marriage

Posted on May 28, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: “I was raised in a very traditionally Christian home. I learned that sex was for marriage without exception. However, as a twenty-two-year-old woman, I have decided to explore my sexuality outside of marriage. I believe this is important but I’m riddled with guilt.”   A: How you feel about sex is likely very influenced with… Read More
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