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Episode 26: It’s Not the Girlfriend Store – Honey Leavitt Podcast

Posted on May 7, 2021 at 5:40 pm by Elle Stanger / 0
Comedian Honey Leavitt and I talk about efforts to decriminalize sex work in Oregon, writing about sex, the hard work of stripping, and losing my partner Bryan to suicide. Listen on Apple Podcasts, and SoundCloud   and be sure to check out: Honey’s IG and Twitter —————————————————————————————————— Apocalypse Podcast Network: www.apocalypsepodcastnetwork.com/ Sign up for the Apocalypse Podcast… Read More
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On Partners Who Dislike Sex Work

Posted on February 27, 2020 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
As a longtime public stripper, I often receive contact from other women in the adult industries who are navigating dating and sex work and experiencing jealousy from their partners. What follows is two examples of folks who recently wrote to me and feeling unsupported and invalidated by their boyfriends. Question 1) My boyfriend went to… Read More
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BroAum Podcast – Open Relationships, Effective Communication, Frequent Masturbation

Posted on February 3, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
I joined the fellas at BroAum podcast to talk about these things, check them out if you’re a guy trying to be a better guy.   “Everyone likes sex, everyone likes attention, everyone has to share, no one likes to feel bad. These are facts of life we all have to deal with. In this… Read More
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What Happens When Strippers Fall in Love With Clients?

Posted on July 19, 2016 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
“How did you two meet?” It’s a common question, and some couples have more interesting answers than others. For me, I met the father of our child for the first time in July of 2009, a few weeks after I had started stripping. As a new stripper, it was overwhelming enough trying to dance nude.… Read More
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What Stripping Has Taught Me About Dating Men

Posted on January 10, 2016 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Originally published 1/9/2026 on Thrillist.com   I’ve been a stripper for seven years. I’ve been married, I’ve been single, and I’m currently polyamorous. For most humans, having a conversation with a stranger is a daunting endeavor. That’s why blind dates, Tinder dates — any dates, really — are stressful: we’re looking to gather information about… Read More

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