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Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories by Rachel Kramer Bussel

Posted on December 1, 2021 at 11:50 pm by Elle Stanger / 0
Do you like reading erotica?Haven’t tried it? See my short fictional(?) tale in the upcoming Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2. I used to read erotica edited by RKB when I was a young adult working in the porn shop back in California, how exciting and surreal to be included in this collection. Cleis Press… Read More
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How to Sext Properly – VICE

Posted on May 21, 2020 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Let’s play a love game – one where you tell me exactly how you want your junk caressed after quarantine.   Sexting is flirtation at its peak. Our faces hidden and our deepest perversions unveiled, we’re both dressed and undressed simultaneously. Just as other senses can be heightened when one is restricted, sexting excites our… Read More
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My Fiancé Wants Me To Try Being A “Cam Girl.” I’m Not So Sure

Posted on January 28, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  My fiance and I have used porn as a way of enhancing our sex life for several months and I enjoy doing that with him. I know some won’t agree, but it’s felt very intimate and I know our sex life feels hotter with some cinematic inspiration at times. Recently we were having a… Read More
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My Partner Wants Me To Be More Vocal In Bed. As a Woman Who Usually Talks A Lot I’m Surprised this Makes me Uncomfortable

Posted on September 17, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:I realize this sounds silly, but my new boyfriend wants me to be more vocal in bed. He’s asked me several times to talk dirty to him. I feel so awkward. It makes me uncomfortable and distracted. A: It doesn’t sound silly at all – even experienced sex workers sometimes feel awkward when vocalizing sexy-speak that’s… Read More
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Am I Doing Orgasms Wrong? – Confluence Daily

Posted on August 14, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: This is embarrassing to admit, but I don’t enjoy orgasms the way everyone else seems to. I can’t say it’s not pleasurable, but sometimes I’m not sure it is. To me, an orgasm just feels like a very intense experience that lasts a few seconds. I don’t see what the big deal is. As… Read More
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Grown Woman’s Guide to Buying a Sex Toy – Confluence Daily

Posted on June 18, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Welcome to a starter’s guide to common sex toys, and a brief introduction of a few lesser known ones. Dildo and vibrator and buttplug are more than just fun words to say! First: Consider your power source, vibrating toys run the gamut of battery powered, plug-in, rechargeable, or disposable. I strongly suggest avoiding disposable toys… Read More
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EROTICA: Body Chain

Posted on May 25, 2017 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
    “Come here. I have something for you.” He stood by the bedroom door. Overhead, the ceiling fan whirred softly. I stood before him, the baby hairs of my forehead moving gently against my brow. My silk robe concealed the delicate golden chain that pressed my nipples, pressed my clitoris. He shut the bedroom… Read More
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I Think It’s Hot To Call My Partner “Daddy” In Bed – Romper

Posted on March 27, 2017 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Calling my partner “daddy” in bed is new to me — I used to find the kinky term of endearment to be stomach-churning, but now I call my partner “daddy” in bed because I think it’s pretty hot. I’m 30 years old, and I’ve had sex with people of all genders, but mostly cisgender men,… Read More
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Yes, Watching Porn Can Make Your Life Better

Posted on July 12, 2016 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
I recently read a New York Times piece blaming pornography for the rise in labiaplasty in teenagers, and I read an Elle magazine article that pointed the finger at BDSM pornography as a cause of physically abusive relationships. Firstly, who the hell is paying for 16-year-olds to get their pussy lips cut off, and secondly,… Read More

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