Education, Updates
How to Sext Properly – VICE
Let’s play a love game – one where you tell me exactly how you want your junk caressed after quarantine. Sexting is flirtation at its peak. Our faces hidden and our deepest perversions unveiled, we’re both dressed and undressed simultaneously. Just as other senses can be heightened when one is restricted, sexting excites our… Read More
Articles
My Fiancé Wants Me To Try Being A “Cam Girl.” I’m Not So Sure
Q: My fiance and I have used porn as a way of enhancing our sex life for several months and I enjoy doing that with him. I know some won’t agree, but it’s felt very intimate and I know our sex life feels hotter with some cinematic inspiration at times. Recently we were having a… Read More
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My Partner Wants Me To Be More Vocal In Bed. As a Woman Who Usually Talks A Lot I’m Surprised this Makes me Uncomfortable
Q:I realize this sounds silly, but my new boyfriend wants me to be more vocal in bed. He’s asked me several times to talk dirty to him. I feel so awkward. It makes me uncomfortable and distracted. A: It doesn’t sound silly at all – even experienced sex workers sometimes feel awkward when vocalizing sexy-speak that’s… Read More
Articles, Education
Am I Doing Orgasms Wrong? – Confluence Daily
Q: This is embarrassing to admit, but I don’t enjoy orgasms the way everyone else seems to. I can’t say it’s not pleasurable, but sometimes I’m not sure it is. To me, an orgasm just feels like a very intense experience that lasts a few seconds. I don’t see what the big deal is. As… Read More
Articles, Updates
Grown Woman’s Guide to Buying a Sex Toy – Confluence Daily
Welcome to a starter’s guide to common sex toys, and a brief introduction of a few lesser known ones. Dildo and vibrator and buttplug are more than just fun words to say! First: Consider your power source, vibrating toys run the gamut of battery powered, plug-in, rechargeable, or disposable. I strongly suggest avoiding disposable toys… Read More
Erotica, Updates
EROTICA: Body Chain
“Come here. I have something for you.” He stood by the bedroom door. Overhead, the ceiling fan whirred softly. I stood before him, the baby hairs of my forehead moving gently against my brow. My silk robe concealed the delicate golden chain that pressed my nipples, pressed my clitoris. He shut the bedroom… Read More
Articles, Education
I Think It’s Hot To Call My Partner “Daddy” In Bed – Romper
Calling my partner “daddy” in bed is new to me — I used to find the kinky term of endearment to be stomach-churning, but now I call my partner “daddy” in bed because I think it’s pretty hot. I’m 30 years old, and I’ve had sex with people of all genders, but mostly cisgender men,… Read More
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Yes, Watching Porn Can Make Your Life Better
I recently read a New York Times piece blaming pornography for the rise in labiaplasty in teenagers, and I read an Elle magazine article that pointed the finger at BDSM pornography as a cause of physically abusive relationships. Firstly, who the hell is paying for 16-year-olds to get their pussy lips cut off, and secondly,… Read More
