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Since the COVID 19 crisis started, my sex drive has been so low

Posted on May 19, 2020 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  Since the COVID 19 crisis started, my sex drive has been so low. I want the connection but I don’t have the libido I did.  How can my partner and I find intimacy and sexual connection when I just don’t want to have sex like I used to? A:  Stress is one of the biggest… Read More
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My Fiancé Wants Me To Try Being A “Cam Girl.” I’m Not So Sure

Posted on January 28, 2019 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:  My fiance and I have used porn as a way of enhancing our sex life for several months and I enjoy doing that with him. I know some won’t agree, but it’s felt very intimate and I know our sex life feels hotter with some cinematic inspiration at times. Recently we were having a… Read More
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Having A Baby Is The Perfect Time To Be Honest With Your Partner About What You Like In Bed

Posted on October 25, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
There was a time in my life when I was too afraid to ask for what I wanted while I was having sex. I was an award-worthy performance actress capable of moans, groans, grunts, and even staccato breathing. I’d learned how to pull off a convincing act by what I’d seen on the tv; women… Read More
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How to Prevent Sex-related Injuries

Posted on October 1, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: My husband and I have been having some really great sex recently. It’s been more frequent and more intense. I guess you might say more vigorous. I’m really enjoying the new momentum in our sex life but I’m finding myself with a variety of minor injuries and issues that are putting a cramp in… Read More
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I think my husband has a porn addiction. He thinks I’m crazy.

Posted on September 24, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
  Q:  I think my husband has a porn addiction. He thinks I’m crazy. I’m not anti-porn. I’m really not. I know people use porn for a variety of healthy reasons. However, my husband is starting to retreat into his office with his computer more and more and a lot of the time he’s honest… Read More
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My Partner Wants Me To Be More Vocal In Bed. As a Woman Who Usually Talks A Lot I’m Surprised this Makes me Uncomfortable

Posted on September 17, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q:I realize this sounds silly, but my new boyfriend wants me to be more vocal in bed. He’s asked me several times to talk dirty to him. I feel so awkward. It makes me uncomfortable and distracted. A: It doesn’t sound silly at all – even experienced sex workers sometimes feel awkward when vocalizing sexy-speak that’s… Read More
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Inquiring Minds Want to Know: The Ins and Out of Period Sex

Posted on May 21, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: I’m in a long-term committed relationship that feels safe and supportive. We have a great sex-life. However, I have unusually long periods sometimes lasting more than ten days. Usually, we mostly abstain during that time, but I’m wondering if that’s a mistake and if maybe we could explore having sex when I’m bleeding. I… Read More
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My husband and I had an amazing sex life until we had our baby. Now I can’t orgasm.

Posted on April 16, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: My husband and I had an amazing sex life until we had our baby. After she was born we both still wanted it, but it’s different now. It’s almost impossible for me to orgasm. It’s frustrating for both of us. I’ve been to the doctor. She says everything is fine. It’s been a year.… Read More
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My Fiance Feels Neglected Because We Don’t Have Sex as Often as He’d Like – What Now?

Posted on March 18, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
Q: In the last year, I’ve gotten a new job and it’s very physically and emotionally demanding, and my fiance of three years complains if we go longer than four or five days without sex. I love him and still find him very attractive but I feel like I’m constantly putting on a show at work,… Read More
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My libido is dead and my partner still wants to f*ck – what now?

Posted on March 2, 2018 at 12:00 am by Elle Stanger / 0
This is a very common question! When a relationship is fresh, people tend to have higher levels of excitement, and so it’s easier to cue up pleasure when you’re more receptive to it. As those excitement levels wane and the monotony of life or routine re-emerges, it is normal and common for libido to dampen.… Read More
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