Articles
Political Differences in Romantic Relationships
Q: I don’t feel okay with my partner lately, and we argue whenever we try to talk politics. He does not understand the riots, the Black Lives Matter movement, the troubles with Trump, or my feeling of being turned off sexually because of the constant arguments we have about these things. I love this man and… Read More
Education, Updates
Let’s Go There w/ Shira & Ryan –
A man wants to marry the woman he pays for sex. Podcaster and Sex worker Elle Stanger, tells us why this is a really bad idea! Let’s go there! I join Shira and Ryan on Channel Q to give advice about clients who fall for their Sex Worker providers, listen here. Read More
Education, Updates
CBSN Originals presents “Speaking Frankly: Porn”
With smartphones and wireless internet, gaining access to pornography has never been easier for young people. But experts say early exposure to porn can “rewire” young people’s brains, distort their views of sexual behavior, and even contribute to dating violence. Now, educators are trying to find ways to teach kids how to think critically about… Read More
Education, Updates
Better Bangin’ 101”- BroAum Podcast
Elle Stanger aka StripperWriter is back this week to help teach us how to better listen to our partner’s sexual desires. Listen for tips on how to relax, how to pay attention, and specific advice on techniques that everybody enjoys. They also discuss questions such as what is the difference between sex and love? Is… Read More
Articles, Education
Am I Doing Orgasms Wrong? – Confluence Daily
Q: This is embarrassing to admit, but I don’t enjoy orgasms the way everyone else seems to. I can’t say it’s not pleasurable, but sometimes I’m not sure it is. To me, an orgasm just feels like a very intense experience that lasts a few seconds. I don’t see what the big deal is. As… Read More
Articles, Education, Updates
So…What about Sex Clubs??? – Confluence Daily
Q: My husband and I have been married for four years. We’ve had a relatively tame but satisfying sex life. Recently though, the topic of sex clubs has come up. I’m both intrigued and intimidated. We know we don’t want a fully open relationship. However, an occasional wild night seems like it might be fun.… Read More
Education
Tightness Anxiety and What To Do About It – Confluence Daily
Q: After having two kids in less than three years I’m worried about my sex life. More specifically, I’m worried about my vagina. I know I’m not as tight as I used to be and I’m worried sex isn’t as good for my partner because of it. A: If you’re worried that your vaginal walls… Read More
Education, Interviews
I Want a Real Polyamorous Relationship With Some Roots and Depth & I Don’t Know Where to Start – Confluence Daily
Q: I’ve always been in monogamous relationships. However, after my last break-up, I started considering polyamory. I’m interested in exploring it more. However, I’m having trouble explaining this to people I’m dating. I don’t want a series of threesomes. I want a real polyamorous relationship with some roots and depth. A: There are many… Read More
Interviews, Updates
Black Bulb Creative Podcast – Podcast
Stripper, author, and podcast host Elle Stanger talks about her experiences navigating the marketing world, dealing with criticism, and staying mentally fit in a “taboo” industry. Watch the episode here. Read More
Interviews, Updates
Being A Sex Worker Makes Me A Better Mum – Barcroft Video
I open up a lot in this intimate profile of my family and work life. Watch here on Youtube.com Read More
