Articles, Education
I’m 46-years-old and I Haven’t Had an Orgasm in Almost Two Years… Help! – Confluence Daily
Q: I am forty-six years old and I haven’t had an orgasm in almost two years. I’m having great sex, but orgasms elude me. It’s frustrating for me, but it’s really hard on my partner. I don’t have any medical issues, but I’m sure I’m in perimenopause. I’m beginning to wonder if this is it… Read More
Articles, Updates
Grown Woman’s Guide to Buying a Sex Toy – Confluence Daily
Welcome to a starter’s guide to common sex toys, and a brief introduction of a few lesser known ones. Dildo and vibrator and buttplug are more than just fun words to say! First: Consider your power source, vibrating toys run the gamut of battery powered, plug-in, rechargeable, or disposable. I strongly suggest avoiding disposable toys… Read More
Education
Tightness Anxiety and What To Do About It – Confluence Daily
Q: After having two kids in less than three years I’m worried about my sex life. More specifically, I’m worried about my vagina. I know I’m not as tight as I used to be and I’m worried sex isn’t as good for my partner because of it. A: If you’re worried that your vaginal walls… Read More
Education, Interviews
I Want a Real Polyamorous Relationship With Some Roots and Depth & I Don’t Know Where to Start – Confluence Daily
Q: I’ve always been in monogamous relationships. However, after my last break-up, I started considering polyamory. I’m interested in exploring it more. However, I’m having trouble explaining this to people I’m dating. I don’t want a series of threesomes. I want a real polyamorous relationship with some roots and depth. A: There are many… Read More
Articles
Guilt, Religion And Sex Before Marriage
Q: “I was raised in a very traditionally Christian home. I learned that sex was for marriage without exception. However, as a twenty-two-year-old woman, I have decided to explore my sexuality outside of marriage. I believe this is important but I’m riddled with guilt.” A: How you feel about sex is likely very influenced with… Read More
Articles
Inquiring Minds Want to Know: The Ins and Out of Period Sex
Q: I’m in a long-term committed relationship that feels safe and supportive. We have a great sex-life. However, I have unusually long periods sometimes lasting more than ten days. Usually, we mostly abstain during that time, but I’m wondering if that’s a mistake and if maybe we could explore having sex when I’m bleeding. I… Read More
Articles
We Tried Some 50 Shades of Grey Style Kink To Spice It Up and It Was a Miserable Failure
Q: I’m embarrassed to even admit this, but recently we tried some 50 Shades style kink to spice it up and it was a miserable failure. The book AND the movie were way better than our reality. My partner and I would like to embrace some kink, but it’s pretty clear at this point we’re… Read More
Articles
How I Will Talk To My Daughter About Sex
My dear child, I want you to have a better sex life than I did. I want your puberty to be less distressing than mine was. I want your first partnered sexual experiences to be pleasurable. I want your body to be a temple of nice touches and healthy foods. I want you to get… Read More
Articles
The Anti Porn Laws That Are Killing People – Unbound
There is a bill that recently passed, and it’s been applauded as a “bi-partisan victory for women.” If you’re like me and feel a minor panic attack creeping with every iPhone news update, you might have appreciated a blip of seemingly good news. Perhaps you even “liked” or retweeted about it. The bills are called… Read More
Articles
My boyfriend likes to go to strip clubs – I don’t want to make it a big deal but I feel threatened and insecure about it
Q: My boyfriend likes to go to strip clubs. I don’t want to make it a big deal but I feel threatened and insecure about it. He’s always been open and honest. I’m not worried about him cheating. I just feel uncomfortable knowing he wants to look at other women that way . A: I love… Read More