Articles
Inquiring Minds Want to Know: The Ins and Out of Period Sex
Q: I’m in a long-term committed relationship that feels safe and supportive. We have a great sex-life. However, I have unusually long periods sometimes lasting more than ten days. Usually, we mostly abstain during that time, but I’m wondering if that’s a mistake and if maybe we could explore having sex when I’m bleeding. I… Read More
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We Tried Some 50 Shades of Grey Style Kink To Spice It Up and It Was a Miserable Failure
Q: I’m embarrassed to even admit this, but recently we tried some 50 Shades style kink to spice it up and it was a miserable failure. The book AND the movie were way better than our reality. My partner and I would like to embrace some kink, but it’s pretty clear at this point we’re… Read More
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How I Will Talk To My Daughter About Sex
My dear child, I want you to have a better sex life than I did. I want your puberty to be less distressing than mine was. I want your first partnered sexual experiences to be pleasurable. I want your body to be a temple of nice touches and healthy foods. I want you to get… Read More
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The Anti Porn Laws That Are Killing People – Unbound
There is a bill that recently passed, and it’s been applauded as a “bi-partisan victory for women.” If you’re like me and feel a minor panic attack creeping with every iPhone news update, you might have appreciated a blip of seemingly good news. Perhaps you even “liked” or retweeted about it. The bills are called… Read More
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My boyfriend likes to go to strip clubs – I don’t want to make it a big deal but I feel threatened and insecure about it
Q: My boyfriend likes to go to strip clubs. I don’t want to make it a big deal but I feel threatened and insecure about it. He’s always been open and honest. I’m not worried about him cheating. I just feel uncomfortable knowing he wants to look at other women that way . A: I love… Read More
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My husband and I had an amazing sex life until we had our baby. Now I can’t orgasm.
Q: My husband and I had an amazing sex life until we had our baby. After she was born we both still wanted it, but it’s different now. It’s almost impossible for me to orgasm. It’s frustrating for both of us. I’ve been to the doctor. She says everything is fine. It’s been a year.… Read More
Articles, Education, Interviews
Sex Experts Tell Us Exactly How To Make Our Sex Lives Better – UPROXX
In a recent study, participants who were nonmonogamous reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction and more frequent orgasms. But the study used a fairly small sample size and was all self-reported — so the degree to which the research can be relied upon is questionable. Nonetheless, the news was greeted with no small amount… Read More
Interviews, Updates
Black Bulb Creative Podcast – Podcast
Stripper, author, and podcast host Elle Stanger talks about her experiences navigating the marketing world, dealing with criticism, and staying mentally fit in a “taboo” industry. Watch the episode here. Read More
Articles
My Fiance Feels Neglected Because We Don’t Have Sex as Often as He’d Like – What Now?
Q: In the last year, I’ve gotten a new job and it’s very physically and emotionally demanding, and my fiance of three years complains if we go longer than four or five days without sex. I love him and still find him very attractive but I feel like I’m constantly putting on a show at work,… Read More
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My libido is dead and my partner still wants to f*ck – what now?
This is a very common question! When a relationship is fresh, people tend to have higher levels of excitement, and so it’s easier to cue up pleasure when you’re more receptive to it. As those excitement levels wane and the monotony of life or routine re-emerges, it is normal and common for libido to dampen.… Read More
