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My husband and I had an amazing sex life until we had our baby. Now I can’t orgasm.
Q: My husband and I had an amazing sex life until we had our baby. After she was born we both still wanted it, but it’s different now. It’s almost impossible for me to orgasm. It’s frustrating for both of us. I’ve been to the doctor. She says everything is fine. It’s been a year.… Read More
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Sex Experts Tell Us Exactly How To Make Our Sex Lives Better – UPROXX
In a recent study, participants who were nonmonogamous reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction and more frequent orgasms. But the study used a fairly small sample size and was all self-reported — so the degree to which the research can be relied upon is questionable. Nonetheless, the news was greeted with no small amount… Read More
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My Fiance Feels Neglected Because We Don’t Have Sex as Often as He’d Like – What Now?
Q: In the last year, I’ve gotten a new job and it’s very physically and emotionally demanding, and my fiance of three years complains if we go longer than four or five days without sex. I love him and still find him very attractive but I feel like I’m constantly putting on a show at work,… Read More
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My libido is dead and my partner still wants to f*ck – what now?
This is a very common question! When a relationship is fresh, people tend to have higher levels of excitement, and so it’s easier to cue up pleasure when you’re more receptive to it. As those excitement levels wane and the monotony of life or routine re-emerges, it is normal and common for libido to dampen.… Read More
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Just because she’s wet doesn’t mean she’s horny
Hey there, do you have a penis? Can you think of an occasion when your penis got hard and yet you weren’t aroused? Have you ever experienced “morning wood”? Or random erections due to nonsexual physical stimulation? You are not alone. Can you recall a situation where someone mistook your visible hardness as arousal? Was… Read More
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Exotic Dancing in The Digital Age – Medium
How technology is changing how strippers view themselves, interact with society and do business “I could be a stripper.” That was what Juniper thought to herself during an eight-hour drive to visit some out of town friends. She had just broken up with her boyfriend and felt like her life was going nowhere. “I had… Read More
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Actually, Talking About Porn With Your Kids Is Easy & Crucial
The first time I saw porn was in my parent’s bathroom. My dad kept Playboy and Hustler in a neat stack next to the toilet, secured by an ashtray that never moved. The ashtray to me symbolized a padlock — it was understood that we were not to touch the ashtray, not to lift it… Read More
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So You Have an STI. What Should You Do Next?
Approximately 20 million Americans acquire a new STI every year. If you’re one of them, here are 8 things you need to know It’s often hard for people to know how to talk about sexually transmitted infections(STIs). The topic can prompt a lot of awkward or potentially stressful conversations. But if you’re a grown man… Read More
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The 6-Week Green Light On Sex After Having A Baby Is A Bunch Of B.S.
How long until you can have sex again after childbirth? That is perhaps one of the most loaded questions that new parents face. Low libido is common in new parents, especially new mothers and especially in new working mothers, though you hear little about it. I co-parent a 5-year-old and work 40 hours a… Read More
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I’m a Sex Worker Asking the 9th Circuit Court to Decriminalize Prostitution
For the first time in thirteen years, the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals is revisiting the legality of full service sex work. The case is ESPLERP vs Gascón, in which three sex workers, one client, and the Erotic Service Providers Legal, Educational and Research Project are challenging the state ban on prostitution. I urge… Read More
