Interviews, Updates
Episode 26: It’s Not the Girlfriend Store – Honey Leavitt Podcast
Comedian Honey Leavitt and I talk about efforts to decriminalize sex work in Oregon, writing about sex, the hard work of stripping, and losing my partner Bryan to suicide. Listen on Apple Podcasts, and SoundCloud and be sure to check out: Honey’s IG and Twitter —————————————————————————————————— Apocalypse Podcast Network: www.apocalypsepodcastnetwork.com/ Sign up for the Apocalypse Podcast… Read More
Articles
On Partners Who Dislike Sex Work
As a longtime public stripper, I often receive contact from other women in the adult industries who are navigating dating and sex work and experiencing jealousy from their partners. What follows is two examples of folks who recently wrote to me and feeling unsupported and invalidated by their boyfriends. Question 1) My boyfriend went to… Read More
Updates
BroAum Podcast – Open Relationships, Effective Communication, Frequent Masturbation
I joined the fellas at BroAum podcast to talk about these things, check them out if you’re a guy trying to be a better guy. “Everyone likes sex, everyone likes attention, everyone has to share, no one likes to feel bad. These are facts of life we all have to deal with. In this… Read More
Articles
What Happens When Strippers Fall in Love With Clients?
“How did you two meet?” It’s a common question, and some couples have more interesting answers than others. For me, I met the father of our child for the first time in July of 2009, a few weeks after I had started stripping. As a new stripper, it was overwhelming enough trying to dance nude.… Read More
Articles
What Stripping Has Taught Me About Dating Men
Originally published 1/9/2026 on Thrillist.com I’ve been a stripper for seven years. I’ve been married, I’ve been single, and I’m currently polyamorous. For most humans, having a conversation with a stranger is a daunting endeavor. That’s why blind dates, Tinder dates — any dates, really — are stressful: we’re looking to gather information about… Read More
