Education, Updates
Let’s Go There: Sex Workers Against The Government
President Trump signed a controversial law into effect last year, Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA), which says websites can be held legally liable if their users post ads for prostitution. The bill was responsible for the closure of a variety of advertising and review sites used by sex workers,… Read More
Articles
My Boyfriend Wants To Try Rape Fantasty Play—I’m A Sexual Assault Survivor
Q: My boyfriend as recently expressed an interest in fantasy play. At first, I was into it. We had a lot of fun making up scenarios and playing them out. I will totally admit it spiced things up between us in a very good way. However, recently he has suggested more violent type fantasies including… Read More
Education
Technology To Use/Avoid For Sex Workers In A Post-FOSTA/SESTA Era – Google Doc
Need help navigating social media and web communication post FOSTA/SESTA? A close friend and tech expert created this information for people to protect their privacy, work more safely, and avoid shutdown or prosecution by entities that criminalize consensual touch between adults. Feel free to share the information and please contact the creator if it… Read More
Interviews, Updates
SLUTEVER – STRIPPERS Episode on VICE
With strip club culture entering the mainstream, Karley spends time with multiple erotic dancers and their fans to find out: are strippers the new “It Girls”? Look for me and some of your other favorite Portland strippers in this episode! Read More
Updates
“Hit me and Draw Blood?” Guys We F*cked Podcast – Live Audience Recording @ Revolution Hall
I had so much fun talking sex, kink, communication and sex work to a packed house and live audience at Revolution Hall. We’re live from Portland this week with co-hosts CORINNE FISHER(@PhilanthropyGal) and KRYSTYNA HUTCHINSON (@KrystynaHutch)! We chat with activist, sex worker, writer and all around badass ELLE STANGER (@stripperwriter) about the devastating effects… Read More
Articles
My Boyfriend’s Best Friend Just Started Dating A Woman Who Openly Calls Herself A Swinger And It Makes Me Nervous
Q: My boyfriend’s best friend just started dating a woman who openly calls herself a swinger. He seems very happy, in fact, happier than I’ve ever seen him in a relationship. He’s mentioned some things that make me believe they are exploring the “swinger” lifestyle together. It makes me very uncomfortable. I think it’s a… Read More
Interviews, Updates
Strange Bedfellows Is the Best Sex and Politics Podcast You’ve Never Heard Of
Tackling taboo subjects like kink, libido, gender, and sex worker rights, Strange Bedfellows is a rare mix of sexy, interesting topics and smart breakdowns of everything from consent language to federal laws. But the willingness of the show’s hosts to shine a light into the modern bedroom has resulted in their show being blocked on… Read More
Updates
BroAum Podcast – Open Relationships, Effective Communication, Frequent Masturbation
I joined the fellas at BroAum podcast to talk about these things, check them out if you’re a guy trying to be a better guy. “Everyone likes sex, everyone likes attention, everyone has to share, no one likes to feel bad. These are facts of life we all have to deal with. In this… Read More
Articles
My Fiancé Wants Me To Try Being A “Cam Girl.” I’m Not So Sure
Q: My fiance and I have used porn as a way of enhancing our sex life for several months and I enjoy doing that with him. I know some won’t agree, but it’s felt very intimate and I know our sex life feels hotter with some cinematic inspiration at times. Recently we were having a… Read More
Education, Interviews
Something Positive for Positive People Podcast – Episode 51
I’m in episode 51 of “Something Positive For Positive People” podcast to talk about my own experiences with chlamydia, HPV and shame. Hosted by Courtney Brame, check out this podcast for herpes-positive people. Read More
