Articles
Is Your Bike Killing Your Boner?
Your favorite form of cardio might be hurting your sex life Erectile dysfunction: it’s every man’s worst fear. Unfortunately, it’s also pretty common: according to one estimate, nearly 18 million American men struggle with erectile dysfunction in some form. There are many factors that contribute to ED, notably poor diet, lack of sleep, and… Read More
Poetry
ABC Knees – A Whore’s Poem
written October, 2017. It’s just a joke, I’ve heard. The words stick into my throat and my eyes and my insides and my ears and it’s Just a joke, I’m told. Because it’s funny to laugh when Whores get hurt. The TV likes us when we are the punch line, not the protagonist.… Read More
Articles
I Only F*ck Feminists – Medium
I am a woman who unabashedly loves men. I love them short, I love them tall, and I love them bearded, shaved, bald, trim, or chunky. I love the way they smell; I love the scratch of a stubbled jaw against my cheek. How do I adore men? I could count the ways. However, I… Read More
Articles
I’m Raising My Daughter Without The Gender Binary
When someone is pregnant, we usually ask them, “Is it a boy or a girl?” When I was pregnant, I asked myself the same question, and my sonogram confirmed it: there was a tiny vulva on the human growing inside me. But even though I knew I was having a girl, what did that actually… Read More
Articles
Why I Want My Daughter To See Me Naked – Romper
I was giving my 5-year-old a bath in our tiny tub littered with toys when she started giving me an impromptu breast exam. “That nipple is longer,” she said, pointing at my breasts. I looked down to verify this new bit of information. I counted my nipple hairs: one, two, three, four. I lifted my… Read More
Articles, Education
I’m a Sex Worker Who Is Sick Of Female Misogyny – HuffPost
If you sh*t on women for making a choice that you didn’t, you’re not a feminist. So you’re a feminist, ey? You tell your kids that girls and boys are equal? That little ladies can grow up to be firefighters and astronauts, that boys can play with dolls and paint their nails? That’s a… Read More
Articles, Education
I Think It’s Hot To Call My Partner “Daddy” In Bed – Romper
Calling my partner “daddy” in bed is new to me — I used to find the kinky term of endearment to be stomach-churning, but now I call my partner “daddy” in bed because I think it’s pretty hot. I’m 30 years old, and I’ve had sex with people of all genders, but mostly cisgender men,… Read More
Articles
Childbirth Changed My Orgasm In The Best Way
Before I had my first baby. I’d always been an orgasmic gal. My mom caught me humping my giant stuffed elephant before I was old enough to ride a bike, and in kindergarten, I learned that if I sat “criss-cross-applesauce,” I could rub my right heel against my pubic mound to stimulate my tiny self… Read More
Articles
A Stripper’s Guide to Body Hair Removal for Men and Women
For many of us, body hair removal is an integral part of our pre-sex preening process. Do you prefer men with trimmed pubes and hairy pits? Do you like your ladies with Brazilians, or bushes? There’s no hard-and-fast rule on this stuff; and depending on you and your partners’ preferences, you might shave here, wax… Read More
Articles
Everything You Need to Know About Working as a Stripper
It takes more than pole-dance classes and locker-room selfies to become a stripper. Stripping — and the hustle of selling your time and company — is a competitive sales job in a highly stigmatized atmosphere. As a stripper of seven years, I know that my chosen work is not for everyone. I formerly worked in… Read More
