Articles
Is Your Bike Killing Your Boner?
Your favorite form of cardio might be hurting your sex life Erectile dysfunction: it’s every man’s worst fear. Unfortunately, it’s also pretty common: according to one estimate, nearly 18 million American men struggle with erectile dysfunction in some form. There are many factors that contribute to ED, notably poor diet, lack of sleep, and… Read More
Poetry
ABC Knees – A Whore’s Poem
written October, 2017. It’s just a joke, I’ve heard. The words stick into my throat and my eyes and my insides and my ears and it’s Just a joke, I’m told. Because it’s funny to laugh when Whores get hurt. The TV likes us when we are the punch line, not the protagonist.… Read More
Articles
I Only F*ck Feminists – Medium
I am a woman who unabashedly loves men. I love them short, I love them tall, and I love them bearded, shaved, bald, trim, or chunky. I love the way they smell; I love the scratch of a stubbled jaw against my cheek. How do I adore men? I could count the ways. However, I… Read More
Erotica
Erotica – Massage Ring – Unbound
She works hard. Her keys jangle and clunk as she throws them on the counter, pecks my cheek, and pads down the hallway to the bedroom. There, she will peel off her clothes and toss them aside, while I begin to fill up the bathtub and start the kettle to boil water for tea. My… Read More
Articles
I’m Raising My Daughter Without The Gender Binary
When someone is pregnant, we usually ask them, “Is it a boy or a girl?” When I was pregnant, I asked myself the same question, and my sonogram confirmed it: there was a tiny vulva on the human growing inside me. But even though I knew I was having a girl, what did that actually… Read More
Erotica, Updates
EROTICA: Body Chain
“Come here. I have something for you.” He stood by the bedroom door. Overhead, the ceiling fan whirred softly. I stood before him, the baby hairs of my forehead moving gently against my brow. My silk robe concealed the delicate golden chain that pressed my nipples, pressed my clitoris. He shut the bedroom… Read More
Articles
Why I Want My Daughter To See Me Naked – Romper
I was giving my 5-year-old a bath in our tiny tub littered with toys when she started giving me an impromptu breast exam. “That nipple is longer,” she said, pointing at my breasts. I looked down to verify this new bit of information. I counted my nipple hairs: one, two, three, four. I lifted my… Read More
Education, Updates
How To Give A Blowjob – Site Exclusive
I’ve been reading blowjob tips in ladies’ and men’s magazines for a decade, and I’m sick of the same ol’ “poke ’em in the perineum” recommendation. I’ve culled my own tips and tricks, and gathered the knowledge of a porn star and two sex educators who actually enjoy S-ing the D. I also polled my… Read More
Articles, Education
I’m a Sex Worker Who Is Sick Of Female Misogyny – HuffPost
If you sh*t on women for making a choice that you didn’t, you’re not a feminist. So you’re a feminist, ey? You tell your kids that girls and boys are equal? That little ladies can grow up to be firefighters and astronauts, that boys can play with dolls and paint their nails? That’s a… Read More
Articles, Education
I Think It’s Hot To Call My Partner “Daddy” In Bed – Romper
Calling my partner “daddy” in bed is new to me — I used to find the kinky term of endearment to be stomach-churning, but now I call my partner “daddy” in bed because I think it’s pretty hot. I’m 30 years old, and I’ve had sex with people of all genders, but mostly cisgender men,… Read More
