Updates
FM July 31: Elle Stanger on FOSTA-SESTA / Alison Stevenson/ When They Call You A Terrorist
This week on Feminist Magazine with host Karina Elias — FIRST… Karina Elias spoke with sex worker, writer, mother and host of Strange Bedfellows Elle Stanger about the dangers and ramifications of FOSTA-SESTA. FOSTA-SESTA are two pieces of legislation aimed at curbing online sex trafficking, but they have been widely criticized for their harmful effect… Read More
Articles, Education, Updates
Pansexuality: My Daughter Just Came Out But She’s Not Exactly Gay – Confluence Daily
Q: My daughter recently sat us down and “came out” to us. It was shocking enough to hear she wasn’t straight. However, she’s not exactly saying she’s gay either. She told us she’s pansexual. I’ve done the research. I get what it means. I just don’t understand how that’s going to play out in our… Read More
Articles, Education, Updates
So…What about Sex Clubs??? – Confluence Daily
Q: My husband and I have been married for four years. We’ve had a relatively tame but satisfying sex life. Recently though, the topic of sex clubs has come up. I’m both intrigued and intimidated. We know we don’t want a fully open relationship. However, an occasional wild night seems like it might be fun.… Read More
Erotica, Updates
Working Classified: Art 2 Support Sex Work Outreach Project
Myself and five other women in the sex industry have been immortalized for a good cause. Read the artist statement below, and visit his site to get your own. When I began hearing about SESTA/FOSTA I didn’t understand the enormity of the problem it was going to create. Luckily I’m surrounded by amazing people who,… Read More
Articles, Updates
Grown Woman’s Guide to Buying a Sex Toy – Confluence Daily
Welcome to a starter’s guide to common sex toys, and a brief introduction of a few lesser known ones. Dildo and vibrator and buttplug are more than just fun words to say! First: Consider your power source, vibrating toys run the gamut of battery powered, plug-in, rechargeable, or disposable. I strongly suggest avoiding disposable toys… Read More
Education, Interviews
I Want a Real Polyamorous Relationship With Some Roots and Depth & I Don’t Know Where to Start – Confluence Daily
Q: I’ve always been in monogamous relationships. However, after my last break-up, I started considering polyamory. I’m interested in exploring it more. However, I’m having trouble explaining this to people I’m dating. I don’t want a series of threesomes. I want a real polyamorous relationship with some roots and depth. A: There are many… Read More
Articles, Education, Interviews
Sex Experts Tell Us Exactly How To Make Our Sex Lives Better – UPROXX
In a recent study, participants who were nonmonogamous reported higher levels of sexual satisfaction and more frequent orgasms. But the study used a fairly small sample size and was all self-reported — so the degree to which the research can be relied upon is questionable. Nonetheless, the news was greeted with no small amount… Read More
Interviews, Updates
Black Bulb Creative Podcast – Podcast
Stripper, author, and podcast host Elle Stanger talks about her experiences navigating the marketing world, dealing with criticism, and staying mentally fit in a “taboo” industry. Watch the episode here. Read More
Interviews
How would you describe your work? My secret power is that I’m able to find teachable moments with my clients, especially around boundaries and communication. I’m basically a femme queer tattooed-Barbie that blends into the mainstream when she wants to, in order to make money or to educate. I’ve been so informed by my… Read More
Interviews, Updates
Being A Sex Worker Makes Me A Better Mum – Barcroft Video
I open up a lot in this intimate profile of my family and work life. Watch here on Youtube.com Read More
